How to make her feel special
Naturally women are created to be well taken care of,and one must be able to identify some little things you need to do to make her feel special.
1. Balance out your compliments
Girls love compliments, and no wonder: They tell her that you really care, and they make her feel good about herself. Compliment her on both her looks and her personality, and she'll feel like she's the whole package in your eyes. Try not to tell her the Same thing repeatedly however, because that sounds plain and generic. Don't over-compliment a girl, either, because you might alarm her, or give the impression that you want something from her in return for your kindness.Tell her that she's "beautiful,""pretty," or "gorgeous" instead. These words are a lot more heartfelt, and they have a little extra emotion behind them.*.Compliment aspects of her personality, too. Girls want to feel pretty on the outside and the inside.Sincere compliments about her personality let her understand that you like her for who she is deep down inside:"Every time we're alone, I feel the time should stand still ."
"You are as beautiful on the inside as you are on the outside."*."You make me want to be a better person every single day. It's a good idea to have a few basic compliments to give your girl every once in a while, but it's also a good idea to take something totally unique about her and let her know that you love it, or at least appreciate it. Maybe you're mesmerized by her eyes. Tell her what her eyes remind you of, Perhaps you love the way her hair her facial features: "Your hair is so soft and silky; it really is aperfect match for your eyes and your lips."Finally, many women are naturally born to be motherly and nurturing; if you say something about her kindness or generosity, itshould hit home: "You've taught me what it means to be kind and what itfeels to be looked after. I hope I can do the same for you."
2. Show her how proud you are to be with her in public.
Do not save affection for only private moments; show the rest of the world how you feel about her. She'll feel like she makes you a lucky guy, which you are. Kiss her cheek or massage her hand when you are in public. Hold herclose when introducing her to one of you friends.*.If she uses social media a lot, show your relationship publicly through social media. Post photos of the two of you, tag her at places, change your relationship status. Show her you are publicly committed to the relationship and that you are proud to show her off.However, if she is a very private person, this may make her uncomfortable.*.Don't be afraid to introduce her as your girlfriend if she is. She might be a little put off if you just introduce her using her name. If you haven't made it clear whether you two are boyfriend and girlfriend, stick to introducing her by name.*.Don't let go of her hand when another boy or girl walks by. She'll think that you're embarrassed to be with her, or that you're trying to impress another girl. If you're holding hands, wait for a good moment to break contact. When another girl is around, make sure your girl feels as if she's the only one.*.For herbirthdayor youranniversary, do something nice for her in public. Get or bake a cakeforher birthday, or give her a card for your anniversary. Do one public thing for her and one private.
3. Talk to her and explore her personality.
Digging deeper and getting to know her likes and dislikes is a huge step in making her feel special. Lots of guys never bother to get really close to a girl because they're only interested in having a physical relationship. Don't be the guy who doesn't know very much about his girlfriend or forgets what she likes and dislikes. Ask her about her hobbies and find out what she's passionate about. Everyone is passionate about something, even if it's buried deep down inside. Find out what she loves to do more than anything else. Figure out what she likes about it. Try to understand it and beinterested in it. Ask lots of questions. Ask her about her childhood, her parents and siblings, her goals, her fears and desires, along with her likes anddislikes. The more you know about her, the better you can comfort herwhen she's down, inspire her when she's stuck, or calm her when she's stressed.Practice listening, Don't tune her out. No matter what she has to say,listen, analyze with her, and offer an informed opinion if you have one. If you don't have an opinion, you can tell her that, saying that you're there for her when she needs to think things through.
4. Be patient.
On occasion, she may cause you to thinkWhat am I doing, this is crazy?! This is definitely not normal.Well, you're getting used to a new normal, and it's going to force you to be patient. She'll thank you for it.If she is late or forgets something, wait patiently for her. Try to be understanding. Don't make her feel guilty, especially if the first word she says is "Sorry." Who knows — one day, the tables could be turned and she might be waiting for you. Let her win the argument. Sometimes, it's best to just let her win the argument. Stand up for yourself and what you believe in, but learn when to back down and let her win. You'll get more in the long run. Listen to her criticisms. No one wants to feel criticized, but you're going to have to compromise if you want to succeed in relationships. So take what she says to heart, try to change whatever is fixable, and show her that you're in it for the long run.
5. Be romantic with her.
You may not think you're the romantic type, but you should know a little bit about how to be romantic if you want to go the extra mile. surprise her with a date. The mere fact that you went out of your way to arrange a surprise date is often enough. Your date doesn't have to be elaborate. Tell her to meet you somewhere or pick her up yourself. Pretend you're doing something boring, like chores, and then surprise her with the date — like a movie, a cooking class, a picnic somewhere remote. She might jump into your arms or look you lovingly in the eyes. Make her a video of yourself. It doesn't need to be fancy — a Facebook video will do. Tell her how she makes you feel; what you love about her; what you were thinking when you first met her. Set all of this to music and send it to her.
6. Do the small things.
Going the extra mile doesn't have to mean some grand, romantic gesture we see in the movies or hear about in stories. Often, the really small things mean just as much, provided you do them with feeling. Sing romantic songs to her, even if your voice is horrible. Have a song that's yours. Even if you butcher it, the singing can be an opportunity for both of you to laugh. Take lots of pictures with her. She'll find it heartwarming to look at you standing next to her, smiling. It also makes for a nice keep sake tomake her know you'll remember her and the fun you shared.
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