How a partner with a drug or alcohol problem affects the other partner

It is not easy to live with a person whose drinking or drug use is causing problems.
The drinker or drug user is often full of conflict, torn between wanting their drug or alcohol and not wanting the harm that always seems to follow.
They often blame others when things go wrong.
The partner or spouse of the addict or alcoholic often doubts themselves: Am I not a good enough partner?
How can I get them to stop taking that drug?
How can I protect my children?
How can I hide this from my family and neighbours?
The partner often feels hurt, ashamed, afraid, and has an overwhelming sense of failure.
Unfortunately, many partners then work even harder to ‘fix’ the situation, taking on extra responsibilities, trying to cover up the mess… fighting a losing battle.If you are that partner, the first step towards putting things right is to take some time for yourself, and get the support you need. A good friend or a counsellor can be a great help. You can drop your number below and we will give ypu a call