HOW TO BUILD A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP

Human naturally is the hardest thing to control, it’s not easy for two people who has never being together to meet and agree on a particular thing, more-or-less a relationship. 

Today we will be discussing about relationships.

”  A relationship  is a connection or association of being related either by blood or by being naturally attracted to the opposite sex”

Complicated relationships from the past which make us less able to trust others

Pressure from others to begin or end a relationship

Stories leading us to form an idealised view of relationships which is at odds with the reality for most couples especially within the age of 16 -25

There are research which suggests that relationships within family, friendships and partnerships:

An acceptance of difference: embracing difference within a relationship rather than attempting to change the other person to be the same as ourselves.

Capacity for boundaries: understanding others cannot meet all our needs although we may aspire for this at times.

Operating mainly in the present:avoiding focusing repeatedly on past grievances or basing a relationship on the hope of future improvement.

Respect for individual choice: adapting a relationship to respect each person’s autonomy and right to choose his/her own path in life.

Skill in negotiating: discovering each person’s wants and needs and then working out a way to fulfil these different goals without one person having to compromise totally.

Sharing positive feelings: sharing kindness and thoughtfulness within a family relationship or friendship. For a couple, sharing sexual intimacy.
Two common misconceptions that hinder the development of a successful relationship include:….
                                      to be continued